Use Microsoft.Extensions.CommandLineUtils and Microsoft.Extensions.Tools.Internal in service ref programs

- add '--quiet' option
- add '--debug' option (when building Debug configuration)
- support `--` in `dotnet-getdocument`; users may want to explictly add options for GetDocument.Insider
- remove '--no-color' option
- use `IReporter` extension methods instead of static `Reporter` class
- reduce `static` use to ease testing (coming soon) and share the `IConsole` and `IReporter`
  - add `ProgramBase`
- allow mix of known and unknown command-line arguments
  - maintain existing behaviour using switch added in dotnet/extensions#2210

nits:
- add a couple more `CommandLineApplicationExtensions` methods
- take VS suggestions

Author: dougbu

src/Tools/Extensions.ApiDescription.Server/src/build/Microsoft.Extensions.ApiDescription.Server.props

@@ -1,12 +1,13 @@
-<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="no"?>
+<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="no"?>
 <Project>
   <!--
     Settings users may update as they see fit.
   -->
   <PropertyGroup>
     <!--
-      Options added to the OpenAPI document generation tool ('dotnet-getdocument') command line. Available options
-      control console output: 'no-color', 'prefix-output' and 'verbose'. All require a double-dash prefix.
+      Options added to the OpenAPI document generation tool ('dotnet-getdocument') command line. For example, the
+      'prefix-output', 'quiet' and 'verbose' options control console output and the 'help' and 'version' options show
+      information. Long form options require a double-dash prefix.
     -->
     <OpenApiGenerateDocumentsOptions Condition=" '$(OpenApiGenerateDocumentsOptions)' == '' " />