BUG: replace with inplace=True does not respect CoW

[phofl]

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Reproducible Example

df = DataFrame({"a": [1.5, 2, 3]})
arr_a = get_array(df, "a")
view = df[:]
df.replace(to_replace=[1.5], value=15.5, inplace=True)
print(arr_a)

Same with to_replace=1.5

Issue Description

arr_a should not get changed

the scalar case is addressed by #50918

Expected Behavior

see above

Installed Versions

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[phofl]

Should fix for 2.0

[lithomas1]

@phofl We should be checking everything else in group 2 of the PDEP as well right (adding tests if it works)?
(Still would need to check where, fillna(needs tests at the very least), mask, clip)

[phofl]

did not test clip (always forgetting about it), the others all respect cow, also have a pr for fillna

[lithomas1]

Opened a PR for the rest.