gh-106320: Don't export _Py_ForgetReference() function (#108712)

There is no need to export the _Py_ForgetReference() function of the
Py_TRACE_REFS build. It's not used by shared extensions. Enhance also
its comment.

Author: vstinner

Include/internal/pycore_object.h

@@ -32,8 +32,14 @@ extern void _PyDebugAllocatorStats(FILE *out, const char *block_name,
 extern void _PyObject_DebugTypeStats(FILE *out);
 
 #ifdef Py_TRACE_REFS
-/* Py_TRACE_REFS is such major surgery that we call external routines. */
-PyAPI_FUNC(void) _Py_ForgetReference(PyObject *);
+// Forget a reference registered by _Py_NewReference(). Function called by
+// _Py_Dealloc().
+//
+// On a free list, the function can be used before modifying an object to
+// remove the object from traced objects. Then _Py_NewReference() or
+// _Py_NewReferenceNoTotal() should be called again on the object to trace
+// it again.
+extern void _Py_ForgetReference(PyObject *);
 #endif
 
 // Export for shared _testinternalcapi extension