Improve performance of `median` function

[alamb]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

The corr function is used in the h20 benchmark and is quite slow.

https://github.com/apache/datafusion/blob/main/datafusion/functions-aggregate/src/median.rs

It would be great to make it faster so our performance in the H2o benchmark improves

Describe the solution you'd like

See details on #13548

1. Add a benchmark for median function
2. Improve performance of median function (likely by implementing GroupsAccumulator)

Describe alternatives you've considered

No response

Additional context

Used here in @MrPower's benchmark:

https://github.com/MrPowers/mrpowers-benchmarks/blob/0b586a0657d7f6cfd55d89508e15b95e79bd4010/benchmarks/datafusion_h2o_groupby_queries.py#L25

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[Rachelint]

A bit busy this month, back and start to push it forward today.