Replace the `assert` in `ext.hpp` with `FC_ASSERT`

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User Story
@pmconrad reported in bitshares/bitshares-fc#126 (comment):

We should replace the assert in ext.hpp with FC_ASSERT though, to catch misspelled arguments.

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