Feature: need a mechanism to cleanup long queued transactions

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Rationale

There are many dungling transactions that are queued in txpool, these transactions are not executable due to nonce notch (they don't meet the nonce consistent requirement)

Implementation

Option-1:

• mark the timestamp of when the transactions was queued
• for these accounts that have been queued for more than a certain threshold(1 day?), only keep the first queued tx in txpool, flush the others into database
• on node shutdown: put the queued transaction into database along with timestamp
• on node restart: reload these transactions with timestamp

Notice: this could eliminate lots of queued transactions, but did not solve the issue fundamentally. Welcome new ideas to address it, especially to avoid malicious attack by sending nonce-notch transactions.