Dynamic attribute support with PyPy

[isuruf]

Checklist

• Used a fork of the feedstock to propose changes
• Bumped the build number (if the version is unchanged)
• Reset the build number to 0 (if the version changed)
• Re-rendered with the latest conda-smithy (Use the phrase @conda-forge-admin, please rerender in a comment in this PR for automated rerendering)
• Ensured the license file is being packaged.

[conda-forge-linter]

Hi! This is the friendly automated conda-forge-linting service.

I just wanted to let you know that I linted all conda-recipes in your PR (recipe) and found it was in an excellent condition.

I do have some suggestions for making it better though...

For recipe:

• License is not an SPDX identifier (or a custom LicenseRef) nor an SPDX license expression.

[conda-forge-linter]

Hi! This is the friendly automated conda-forge-linting service.

I wanted to let you know that I linted all conda-recipes in your PR (recipe) and found some lint.

Here's what I've got...

For recipe:

• Failed to even lint the recipe, probably because of a conda-smithy bug 😢. This likely indicates a problem in your meta.yaml, though. To get a traceback to help figure out what's going on, install conda-smithy and run conda smithy recipe-lint . from the recipe directory.

[conda-forge-linter]

Hi! This is the friendly automated conda-forge-linting service.

I just wanted to let you know that I linted all conda-recipes in your PR (recipe) and found it was in an excellent condition.

[ax3l]

cross-link: pybind/pybind11#2146

[wjakob]

Am I understanding this correctly that the feedstock is somehow being used as a side-channel to get patches into pybind11 separately from the main GitHub repo? I would be very much against something like this. I realize that I haven't been very responsive recently (particular as of late, there is no day care in Switzerland atm.), but that is no excuse IMO.

[ax3l]

Yep, same here. I appreciate the upstream contribution a lot but opening and self-merging this PR within a day for an unmerged patch puzzles me.