Backport of Don't carry all -replace addresses through to every instance into v1.14

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Backport

This PR is auto-generated from #37833 to be assessed for backporting due to the inclusion of the label 1.14-backport.

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Once we have a resource instance we no longer need to have all possible forceReplace addresses, we can determine immediately if the instance address is in the set of replacement addresses. This avoids bugs caused by sharing the -replace flag addresses across all resource nodes.

After working out a regression test for this, it became apparent that the test was not useful at all. It's not possible to regress this fix if the shared slice no longer exists, and even then relies on Go implementation details to get the slice len and cap to line up for the sharing to happen, so it may never fail again in the future. Since no behavior changes have been made, the existing test coverage should be sufficient.

Fixes #37831

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