Account for relocated objects in tracemalloc

[pablogsal]

There are many places where we resize/reallocate memory for objects inline and we are not properly telling tracemalloc of their destruction, resulting in invalid object counting

Linked PRs

• gh-126076: Account for relocated objects in tracemalloc #126077
• [3.13] gh-126076: Account for relocated objects in tracemalloc (GH-126077) #127823