bump stale bot due to removal not working and bumping all other actions

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Proposed change

Bumping all of the github actions.
Stale actions seems to contain a bug on v3.0.0 that won't remove stale labels upon a comment.

Type of change

• Dependency upgrade
• Bugfix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New integration (thank you!)
• New feature (which adds functionality to an existing integration)
• Deprecation (breaking change to happen in the future)
• Breaking change (fix/feature causing existing functionality to break)
• Code quality improvements to existing code or addition of tests

Additional information

• This PR fixes or closes issue: fixes #
• This PR is related to issue:
• Link to documentation pull request:

Checklist

• The code change is tested and works locally.
• There is no commented out code in this PR.
• The code has been formatted using Ruff (ruff format custom_components/victron)

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This pr is ready for review

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@remcom could you review this PR? (thanks in advance)