perf: use URL.canParse

[sapphi-red]

Description

Use URL.canParse (nodejs/node#47179, whatwg/url#763) if available that can skip the try-catch overhead.
I don't think this improves the perf much but we can simplify this by removing the fallback polyfill when it's ready.

Maybe we can bump the target to Node 18.17.0 instead of 18 in Vite 5? (#14030)

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[patak-cat]

I think we should wait to see what other features we get by bumping to 18.17.0. If it is only for this one, I think we could move forward without that using your helper. We are going to have another major before 18 goes EOL too if we want to bump it.